Looking back on my life from the woods here in Tennessee, I realize that during the late 1970's, I grew up in one of the coolest places in the United States: Oak Harbor, Washington.
When I tell people I grew up in Oak Harbor, Washington, and that I was born in Hawaii, they look at me in disbelief. That I could be Salmon fishing one moment, then 30 minutes later at Cow Corner having a burger and a chocolate milkshake, or going down to the record shop downtown on Pioneer Way to buy my first concert tickets for Boston, then Pat Benatar. Making love during the 4th of July Fireworks, with the moonlight shining off the ocean. It was the first time we were both in love, and I still think about her often. It was the perfect American Graffiti adolescence. I think back to my time on that Island as some of the best of my life.
Growing up in Oak Harbor in the late 1970s gave me a quintessential Pacific Northwest youth experience, blending small-town charm with the vibrant energy of a close-knit community. The town's unique social fabric was defined by a constant, shifting dance between the "Navy brats" from the base and the "local kids" who grew up on the island—two distinct worlds that naturally collided, adapted, and seamlessly integrated in the hallways of Oak Harbor High. It was a time defined by simple freedoms and legendary local routines, where weekends meant piling into a bright red Ford Pinto to cruise down Pioneer Way or meet up with friends at Cowcorner. High school was an unforgettable blur of camaraderie, culminating in the anticipation of graduating at the turn of the decade, with classic weekend keg parties out in the woods and regular hangouts over legendary pizza at Smilies Pizza. The town's shared rhythm felt like a unique comfort, framed by the beautiful Whidbey Island landscape and punctuated by history-making moments like the rumbling eruption of Mount St. Helens on the horizon, making it an absolutely magical and irreplaceable place to spend one's formative years.
Muscle cars rumbled down Pioneer Way, their dual exhausts bouncing echoes off downtown Oak Harbor's brick storefronts. It was the late 1970s on Whidbey Island, when a tank of gas cost less than five dollars, the air constantly smelled of saltwater mixed with muscle car exhaust, and our lives were measured by the length of the weekend.
Every Friday night started exactly the same way: cruising Pioneer Way. The headlights of the bright red Ford Pinto caught the low fog rolling off the water as we made our evening rounds. It wasn't a muscle car, but that red paint stood out under the streetlights—a continuous loop of open road, good friends, and a full tank that only cost a few bucks. People would pack into Chevy Novas, Ford Mavericks, and beat-up pickup trucks, doing slow laps from one end of town to the other. If you weren't on Pioneer, you were idling over at Cowcorner—the ultimate staging ground where everyone parked, leaned against warm hoods, and figured out where the night's kegger was going to be. It was our version of a social network, written in the smoke of burning rubber and the static of FM radio.
The parties themselves were legendary, hidden deep in the woods off Taylor Road or down by the gravel pits. Someone's older brother bought the kegs, and word of mouth did the rest. We'd stand around a massive bonfire under the massive Douglas firs, plastic cups sweating in the cool Pacific Northwest air, listening to Fleetwood Mac or Led Zeppelin blasting from someone's open car doors. You knew just about everyone there—the base kids whose families moved every three years, and the locals whose roots in the island soil went back generations. We were all bound together by the high school, the island, and the looming reality of graduation.
The Class of '80's weekend routine was practically set in stone. The slow cruise down Pioneer Way always led to Cowcorner, where we'd park, swap stories through rolled-down windows, and figure out who was heading out to the woods for the keg parties. But before any bonfire or gravel pit gathering, the real destination was Smilies Pizza. Slipping into a booth at Smilies meant catching up over a steaming taco pizza, loaded up just the way we liked it. The crowded room was always alive with the familiar noise of jukebox music and high school drama, making it the perfect refueling station before heading out into the Whidbey Island night.
By the spring of 1980, the carefree rhythm of those pizza runs and late-night cruises began to collide with a changing world. On May 18th, Mount St. Helens gave us a stark reminder that our high school days were officially ending. When the mountain erupted, the sky over Oak Harbor turned a ghostly, bruised gray. The daylight dissolved into a strange twilight, and a fine, gritty layer of volcanic ash settled over everything. The mountain had changed forever, and we knew then that change was inevitable.
Walking across the stage to grab our diplomas a few weeks later felt exactly like that sky: completely surreal, a literal changing of the guard. We left the comfort of Smilies and the familiar patterns of Pioneer Way behind, stepping into a new decade as the earth itself shifted. The IIsland, the volcano, and that reliable red Pinto carried us to the edge of adulthood, a moment none of us would ever forget.
When graduation finally came for the Class of '80, it felt like standing on the edge of the world. The stadium lights down at the high school field marked the end of an era. Some of the guys were already signed up for the Navy, planning to just cross the highway to NAS Whidbey. Others packed bags for Seattle, or, like myself, joined the Army. We felt invincible, yet entirely unsure of what the new decade would bring.
The 1970s ended not with a whimper, but with a rumble from the earth. We eventually left those woods, traded the muscle cars for more practical things, and watched Pioneer Way change over the decades. But if you close your eyes on a crisp autumn night in Oak Harbor, you can still hear the phantom roar of a V8 engine, the crackle of a bonfire, and the laughter of a generation that grew up in the shadow of the jets and the volcano.
This childhood defined my life. It led me to realize life is short. Life is like a wave crashing on the beach; you better ride it, or it will ride you.


